The Birds & Bees Founder, Mary Flo Ridley, has been passionately sharing this message all over the world for 30 years.
Mary Flo and her husband Dave have been married for 40 years, they have three married children, and eight grandchildren.
After growing up in El Paso, Mary Flo graduated from SMU. When she isn’t working on B&B she loves playing with her grandchildren, baking, and traveling!
Mary Flo Ridley joins me to talk about simple, foundational conversations to have with our children, ranging from toddlers to teens, that will shape their sexual health for years to come.
“What is the main thing you want your children to know about sex? If they’re growing up in your family? If you could give that answer in one sentence? What would that sentence be?”
“When they [children] leave, what will they take with them that I have taught them on this topic, both in words and deeds?”
“We also have to define what does it mean when we say private? [It] means no one else touches those or asks to see those or, these days, you also have to include, no one takes a picture of those.”
“Use your pediatricians voice. Pretend that you’re talking to them as their pediatrician. What do you think that would sound like, instead of getting all weirded out?”
“I want parents to realize your child is not going to school with just six year olds, they’re going to school with the oldest sibling of any six year old in that room.”
“You have to know that if you want to be the one to tell them, with your values, it’s going to be so much sooner than you think, You don’t think your young child is ready to hear this, but you’re leaving them wide open, when you don’t say anything, to anything they may hear in the culture.”
“I know that some parents will think, oh, that’s far too young to explain things to a child, but it’s also too young for them to hear it from someone else.”
“One suggestion we have for parents is just to own it. Go ahead and say there is a topic I have avoided a little bit, because it’s a little uncomfortable, but that’s not going to be the case anymore. This topic is the topic of sex.”
Heather M. Dixon | Author, Speaker, Bible Teacher
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